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OK to beat wives?


RIYADH, Saudi Arabia A Saudi judge told a conference on domestic violence that a man has the right to slap a wife who spends money wastefully and said women were as much to blame as men for increased spousal abuse, a Saudi newspaper reported.

The remarks do not carry the weight of law, as they were made out of court. But such public pronouncements by Saudi judges who are also Islamic clerics are often widely respected.

A rights activist decried the remarks and said she and other campaigners viewed them as the latest setback in women's efforts to gain the right to vote, drive, freely participate in politics and be protected from violence. Activists have become more vocal in recent years in their criticism of cases involving women's rights, including what many see as the religious police's harsh enforcement of the segregation of sexes.

"If a person gives 1,200 Saudi riyals ($320) to his wife and she spends 900 riyals ($240) to purchase an abaya (head-to-toe robe) from a brand shop and if her husband slaps her on the face as a reaction to her action, she deserves that punishment," Judge Hamad Al-Razine was quoted as saying by the English-language Arab News newspaper on Sunday.

The comments at a recent conference were given as part of an explanation for an increase in domestic violence in the country. The judge said women were equally responsible for the increase, the newspaper quoted him as saying.

The paper did not say exactly when the conference was held. The judge could not be reached for comment on Monday.

Women in the audience loudly protested the judge's remarks, the newspaper said.

Saudi Arabia bars women from voting, except for chamber of commerce elections in two cities in recent years, and no woman can sit in the kingdom's Cabinet. Women also cannot drive or travel without permission from a male guardian.

Sohaila Zenelabideen Hammad, spokeswoman of the Saudi National Center for Human Rights, told the Associated Press on Monday that the judge's remarks are reason for concern for being "too extreme."

"It is not acceptable, it is even forbidden in Islam to beat a woman on her face. ... No matter what the woman does, the man has no right whatsoever and under any circumstances to beat his wife on the face," said Hammad, who was not at the conference.

"Regrettably, there is a common understanding in the Arab and Islamic world that man is the master who looks down on the woman and has the right to do whatever he wants to her. This is wrong," Hammad said.

She said she was to attend a meeting later Monday with members of UNICEF, the U.N. agency for children, to discuss the issue.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090511/ap_on_re_mi_ea/ml_saudi_women_s_rights;_ylt=AnBVvF4GwcTjLybIKmAIa3ULewgF


your thoughts? what should be done
about this?



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no, it's not ok. Personally, I think Saudi laws should change.

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they should change there laws doesnt matter what the reason is a man should never hit a women

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This doesnt suprise me at all. I think it is ridiculous and do NOT think that this should be allowed but Im not suprised unfortunately

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Changing the law doesn't do anything, in most middle eastern countries.


Tradition > Law

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I found through my personal experiences that a man has no right to lay his hands on a women tradition OR Law it doesn't matter... Only a coward would do such a thing. It makes me sick to my stomach.

-- Edited by BrianaV on Wednesday 13th of May 2009 05:48:06 PM

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There should be a law saying its OK to slap this Saudi judge who said this.

PATHETIC!!!


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Saudi Arabian law. Doesn't concern us. Like I said before, the male dominates the society in Saudi Arabia so I'm not surprised. They ain't going to change the law.

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I understand that it may be thier "tradition", but it is MORALLY wrong!!! People should follow their morals and sometimes some people may not have the geatest morals but come on, hitting a woman, even just hitting your spouse is wrong.

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no one should hit anyone actually. men and women. and i dont care if it is their "tradition". i am not surprised tho..many men believe that it is ok to hit their wives. i feel bad for those women. i dont respect any man that hits any woman. thats just wrong.

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It is absolutley not ok to beat your wife!!!!! People who think it's ok to do this have serious issues and need imediate help! If there are problems within the marriage they can be delt with by communication, not by phyisical action.

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The middle east people come up with some wackkkk things so it doesnt surprise me


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same, it doesnt surprise me at all. this would happen in the mid east. so sad however, definately shoud NOT

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Its kind of sad that that is the opinion of the people who are supposed to be leading their people, whatryagonado?

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jacobcorbin wrote:

The middle east people come up with some wackkkk things so it doesnt surprise me




 look who's talkin macho Lebanese man :)



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we should go over there and start slapping the men in the face for spending the billions we gave them wastefully. :) yay. problem solved

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Luis777 wrote:

they should change there laws doesnt matter what the reason is a man should never hit a women



I agree

 



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i think this is sad..but theres not much we can do. if the law changes, people will still do it. look at the laws today in the united states. doesnt stop people. those men disgust me....gross.

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the law wont stop people from what they know and think is okay. but it is wrong, why can guys hit girls. not right at all. keep your hands to yourself. why would you want to hit a girl anyway? rude.

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it's sad that in other countries its okay to do things like this. it makes me realize how priviledged i am to be living here that i don't really have a big worry about things like it. it's wrong to hit a woman and to blame her for it. it's stupid and makes me mad that people actually get away with things like that and that it is seemed as normal and good. women are more than just property, they are people too.

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